Rules of this type of massage
1. Eye gazing or staring at other areas rather than my face, I do not mind you looking at me as long as it is while we are talking or doing breath work. I don't want you to just stare up at the ceiling. You can close your eyes if that is better. I do like to see a smile or expressions.
2. I do prefer you to keep your hands to yourself as it distracts me from properly doing the medical pelvic. I understand some feel it's weird not being able to touch back, may I remind you this is a medical pelvic massage it is my job to do what is necessary to improve your pelvic, back, legs, nerves, lymph areas and so on. This massage is not intended for a "sexual relationship" of any kind.
3. I have been asked " do you like doing this massage" this is not intended for me to "like" it is a massage like any other ones I do, I do not find it to be of any sort of "like" for me personally, I only have this type of massage for medical purposes only, I will always say that being respectful. It can be soothing, relaxing, and can cause arousal. Arousal is normal, please read why below.
4.I will not entertain or reply on size or anything pertaining to " personal area parts" if it is not pertaining to the nature of health concern then don't ask . You may hear me say something as in a joke or possible rude, or off the wall. DO NOT MAKE IT AWKWARD! PLEASE!! I will make it awkward in return.
5. You may feel the need to move around or stretch. Doing so is okay. No grinding the air, or pelvic thrusts to the point of lifting your ass off the table. I will ask you to tilt pelvic back and forth ( again medical only) this is for stabilization of your core muscles. I will also ask you to do deep breath work and squeeze Kiegles ( every human has them) it is the muscle that controls your peeing, and to tighten up your pelvic floor so you don't have other issues happen.
5 is enough to place on here. This is such a bullshit matter that I find myself either constantly repeating or I just block those who can't just do the simple basic human respectful code for a health care worker. Just because I am a woman that is a liking to you does not mean you can or have the right to act like an ass. Yes I said it! I will treat you with respect. If I block or refuse any treatment it is only because of feeling disrespected.
ANY HOW THOSE OF YOU WHO CAN RESPECT A MASSAGE THERAPIST:
THANK YOU AND HOPE TO SEE YOU!